Friday, December 8, 2023

Blog Post #10 week 13 Leading With

 

Resonances/ Questions/Critiques

THE YOUTH ARE BEING NOTICED, IT IS THEIR TIME TO GET THINGS DONE. YOUTH LED PROGRAMS ARE ALL OVER THE TELEVISION, ON SOCIAL MEDIA, AND IN THE MOUTHS OF THE POLICY MAKERS.

YOUNG PEOPLE ARE PUBLICALLY SHARING THEIR EXPERIENCES, SUPPORTING BOYCOTTS, AND PUSHING FOR CHANGE WHILE IN PARTNERSHIP WITH ADULTS.

THEY ARE FIGHTING SOCIAL ISSUES LIKE:
  • EDUCATIONAL INEQUALITY
  • CLIMATE CHANGE
  • POLICE BRUTALITY
  • GUN VIOLENCE
  • RACISM  

ALL IT TAKES IS A SEED TO BE PLANTED IN SOMEONES HEAD FOR AN IDEA TO START TO GAIN TRACTION AND GROW INTO SOMETHING TANGIBLE. "WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE, HOW CAN I MAKE A CHANGE?" NATIONWIDE MOVEMENTS ALL STARTED WITH A SIMPLE THOUGHT.



Thursday, December 7, 2023

Blog #6 - Week 9 Whiteness


How does whiteness and white supremacy culture impact the youth and educational spaces that you inhabit? What does it look like? Feel like in your body and movements? How does it sound? Taste? Slip by or call out?

OR

What is a space that you are/have been a part of that is grounded in values and practices outside of whiteness? Describe this space--the explicit and implicit beliefs and values that shape policy, practice, and relational work. What does it look like? Feel like in your body and movements? How does it sound? Taste? 



I have witnessed and been a part of a space grounded outside of whiteness at the University of Rhode Island, Talent Development Program. My time was short, but I saw how the advisors, and mentors worked together to give support to the students. TD was considered their “home" away from home. I say "their" home away from home because I got dismissed from the TD program for not completing the summer requirements with passing grades. I bounced back and I got accepted back under the "regular" URI program which didn't care about minority youth. They allowed me to take 6 course, which I didn't know was a bad thing at 18yrs old, I thought it would help me graduate sooner. Little did I realize that 6 courses meant 6 piles of homework, 6 midterms, and 6 finals. Someone else could have probably handled this but not me. I needed someone behind me, or beside me helping me along to the finish line, but at that time, that was not my story.


The space that I have been consistently a part of that is grounded in values and practices outside of whiteness is my "sister circle". There are seven of us in total. We are there for each other in the good times and the bad. We are not physically together all the time but we have a group text that is ALWAYS going at all times of the day and night. We have different upbringings, believe in different things, but are always there for each other in good times and bad. We can be our true authentic selves in our circle of friendship. This is the space where we can exhale....






Monday, November 27, 2023

Blog post #9 Week 12 Limited Representation

  Resonances/ Questions/Critiques


As I read through the two articles, one thing that resonated with me was that I was one of the little girls unknowingly pretending to be a white princess from the fairytales or one of many white Barbie dolls, or baby dolls that I played with. Not only were my dolls mostly white so were my neighbors and classmates. The posters on my bedroom walls were of mostly white artist; Duran Duran, George Michael, Cindy Lauper, Beastie Boys, Hall and Oats, and Madonna, I also had Michael Jackson, Prince, Run DMC, and LL. As more and more black artist came out with music and videos my walls became less white, not that the music wasn't good, I think I wanted more representation of self in my room. I didn't realize how limited African American representation was growing up. It was normal to be one of the only black youths, besides my sister playing outside or to only see one black person in a show as the best friend or as the neighbor. YDEV classes opened my eye wider to see how the world really is and try to come up with solutions on how to help everyone else see it too.

         

           
What also resonated with me was the feeling of not doing enough in life to be considered good enough. When can I slow down? Sometimes I think that I am not living my best life, I am just existing, I am exhausted.















BLOG POST #11 week 14 Abolitionists

What ideas here feel close, like you can touch them?

An idea that feels close enough to touch is being/becoming woke to systemic racism, woke to the idea that nothing is going to change unless you don't A C T I V E L Y do something about it, act on it. In the podcast, B. Love became woke in college when she noticed she was in jock classes with the male bball players and not in classes that would put her in the direction towards a degree program that she wanted. This decision was made for her, by her being from the inner city, the "systems that be" thought that she needed easy classes in order for her to pass. G. Muhammad was school age when she noticed her twin sister got put on the fast track in school and she was in the "slow" classes. She stuck up for herself and was able to convince her mom that she belonged in the "fast" classes with her sister. I noticed the system not working for me in high school. I was in U.S History class and I felt that the teacher really wasn't teaching me. I would ask her questions and she would tell me to read the book. I ended up failing her class and having to take the same class with the same teacher and got the same results. I tried to fight it but my guidance counselor did not help my situation. I ended up having to take the class in summer school and passed with an A but could only receive a C because they had to take the average score. The next year my sister had the same teacher for the same class and the teacher said to her, " You're back again?" This situation cemented in my head that not everyone is on your side fighting for you and your well being. It let me know that I have to speak up and fight for myself to get what I need and want.

What ideas feel far away/ hard to wrap your mind around/ impossible?

The ideas that feels far away is that when thinking who needs antiracism education the system seems to want to educate the minorities, the black and brown children when they are living and maneuvering through this world as it is. As B. Love said on the podcast, the schools need to educate white children/teachers/parents so they can S E E what is going on in our education system, and how things aren't how they are presented to us and what we have to go through on a daily basis.

What does this have to do with youth work? With social justice? With your daily practice?

The abolitionists work goes hand in hand with youth work. We have to have small acts of resistance to keep pushing forward. We have to keep fighting for equal right for black and brown students and teachers. We want change so we have to put in the work to make the changes that we want to see.


Sunday, November 5, 2023

Blog Post #8 week 11 Rest and Recoup

 

Tell us a story about a time in your life when you needed and received care. What did this look and feel like? How did SYSTEMS play a role in your story--how were institutions caring or uncaring

A time in my life when I needed care and received it:

My mom knows when I am stressed out, she can hear it in my voice, she can feel it in her soul. She knows when I have been going through "Grind Culture" (working all the time; slave culture). I have been working my two jobs, getting stressed out, dealing with my husband that is a nice guy but does not help around the house. Dealing with my grown son, making sure he is working towards getting his life together. Watching the news, making sure he is not on it, in an accident or arrested and the list goes on and on. When I am home, I cannot seem to quiet my mind from thinking about my family and making sure they are well and are in good positions in their life.

The care I received was, my mom had me come to Kentucky to visit her without my family so I could rest. I got to SLEEP!!! I woke up when I woke up and fell back to sleep when my eyes closed without thinking about what I had to do next. It was the best feeling to not have to think about anyone but myself.

The systems, capitalism and white supremacy play a role in my story by making me think that I must work multiple jobs to achieve the "American Dream". To purchase a house, cars, and savings, I am working like a machine which is tearing my body, mind, and soul apart. I know to reclaim my body, I need to "nap". I need to retrain my brain, because you cannot take anything with you if you are dead from exhaustion. Tricia Hersey's podcast has me thinking how I can be more human and less machinelike.

 

 


Monday, October 30, 2023

Blog post #7- Week 10 Podcast

Share a brief summary of the podcast you listened to. What are YOUR key takeaways? What do you want us to know? How does this connect to social justice youth work as described by Clemons?

I listened to the podcast, "Nice White People". It was about how the schools are segregated and how this particular school tries to "diversify" the school to raise the number of students attending.

The podcast was about a neighborhood school in New York named, School for International Studies (SIS). This school was made up of mainly Black, Latino, and Middle Eastern students. The principal of SIS was an African American woman and she reached out to the neighborhood families which were wealthy white families to give SIS a chance for their child to attend and raise the student population. The white families usually went to the same three schools that were populated with white students, SIS wasn't in their radar. The "white" schools were full so one parent, Rob, tried to gather other white families to attend SIS together. They were lured with promises of a French program so they came. They came to the school with a savior attitude. They formed their own committee and raised money for their children not necessarily for the school. They didn't take into account the feelings, the income level, and community of the children and families that were in the school before they came in trying to change it. They even had their children thinking they were sent there to make the school a better place. These new families had a way of thinking, because they can raise money, the school would be a better place, this isn't necessarily true and wasn't true for SIS.

My key takeaway listening to this podcast, I could feel the pain and hurt in the PTO members voices. All the hard work that they did for the school got over looked for money. If the white families came in and partnered with the PTO instead of creating their own secretive committee they could've brought together the community in a familiar way that the original families were used to. Instead it became an us against them thing. No one needed saving, they just needed help.

I want you to know that schools that are mainly populated with black and brown students don't need saving, they might just need a little help.

This podcast connects to Rachel's article on social justice youth work because if the students at SIS were able to have a say in the program that the new family brought to the school (French Program), the program would have been a language that a majority of the school speaks, not French.

Friday, October 13, 2023

BLOG #1-Week #2 My Covid Story

 One important moment that happened to me during the Covid-19 Pandemic was that I went back to school. I started back up in 2020 to finish my bachelor's degree that I started twelve years prior.

Going back to school did not look the same as it did in previous years. Covid-19 took the face to face aspect of going to school away. EVERYTHING was online. I am an older student, so I was used to talking to people eye to eye, going to offices for help, and just being in person. Having everything online was difficult for me to navigate successfully, luckily I had a classmate (Susan) that was really good at figuring things out. The syllabus for each class always had blogs, padlets and videos that I had to learn to maneuver and turn in homework assignments and projects on. Once I got the hang of it I felt more comfortable with my classes. Zoom was the way we showed up to class. In the beginning people were laying in the bed, or had the camera off, or was even at work while in class. By the second semester people had to show up bit more professional to class.  Zoom meetings ended up being one of the best things that came out of the pandemic once everyone got the hang if it. . 

Going back to school at this particular point in my life was very stressful. Having two fulltime jobs, having to take care of a husband, a son, a household and homework was A LOT, but I pushed through and I was able to graduate with my sister who was in the Social Work bachelor/masters program at RIC. This was the light at the end of the tunnel. Both my sister and I, although Y   E   A   R   S later, we were able to make our parents proud. They are now able to say their children are college graduates and this makes my heart happy and made the stress and aggravation all worth it.🎓🎓🎓🎓🎓🎓🎓





Blog Post #10 week 13 Leading With

  Resonances/ Questions/Critiques THE YOUTH ARE BEING NOTICED, IT IS THEIR TIME TO GET THINGS DONE. YOUTH LED PROGRAMS ARE ALL OVER THE TEL...